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This is my take on what a successful marriage would look like: 1. Become - Best Friends, Lovers and Fully Committed to each other 2. Learn each other's Love Language 3. Learn to meet each other's Needs 4. Bring Healing to each other's Childhood Hurts and Wounds So what happens when it all goes wrong? When we are in meltdown, when we perceive that our partners intentions are bad, we react in ways to self protect. We go into what's known as fight or flight mode. We become defensive, critical, contemptuous or we stonewall, we literally shut them out. If any of these four areas have become permanent in our relationships, we are headed for trouble. Work with me as together we work out how to change this, how you can reach out to one another and how to recapture the love your marriage deserves. “Love is everything it’s cracked up to be, It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, your risk is even greater.” (Erica Jong) "Most fights are really protests over emotional disconnection. Underneath the distress, partners are desperate to know: 'Are you there for me'?" (Dr Sue Johnson) "To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless; it will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable." (C.S. Lewis) "Love is not the icing on the cake of life. It is a basic primary need, like oxygen or water". (Dr Sue Johnson) Now that you've come this far, the next step is to make contact with me, either by email using the contact form, by text or by phone. We can then discuss your needs, book an appointment and together, we can find a way forward. I am seeing clients Face to face and via Online Video Sessions, using any of the following platforms: Zoom, FaceTime or What'sApp. If you need help setting any of these up on your computers or smartphones just let me know and I can talk you through it. The good news is that this means you can now access the service no matter where you live in the world. I have a number of international clients as well as those based all over the UK.

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